Well first of all…just look at him! Soooooo handsome! This should be reason enough.
But really, aside from his strapping good looks, here is why my husband is better than yours:
Dave knows that my love language is "Receiving Gifts" and "Acts of Service". Not only do I get gifts on Christmas,
Valentine’s Day, my birthday, and every other holiday, but he randomly surprises me throughout the
year with flowers or a Costco sized bag of Hi-Chew for no reason at all. When I wake up from thirst in the middle of
the night, he will go downstairs to get me water. Not to mention he is chivalrous – he ALWAYS
opens my doors – and will put any other man to shame when it comes to being a
gentleman. 9. He is my biggest fan. He is so supportive of everything that I do, and he is always cheering me on. He is just as proud of all of my accomplishments as I am. Dave has genuine interest in things that I like to do too. For example, he is always first to read my blog posts (which is good because he doubles as my editor. I can’t tell you how many times I have published something only to hear seconds later “you misspelled …”) Not to mention, he will even subject himself to my crazy ideas if he knows it will help me reach a goal...10 day juice fast…
8. He is always excited. He gets excited over the things I am excited about. And he is always so happy and cheerful and can always put me in a better mood. Seriously, if you need a pick-me-up, just watch the man open a present.
7. He helps me with chores and projects. Whenever David sees me cleaning, without question, he will start to help me. When I cook dinner, he will do the dishes. He does the laundry on days when I am so tired I can’t move (growing a human is very tiring people!), and he enjoys helping me with all of my Pinterest projects. I am pretty sure within the next year, he will be a very skilled carpenter with all the plans I have in mind for our new house.
6. He remembers the little things. Yes, there are times when I strongly hint towards something and he just doesn’t have a clue, but he always manages to pick up on the little things…and the little things are the ones that matter most. One day I was telling him how it felt like my teeth were moving, and that night he snuck into the bedroom before me so he could put my retainers right next to my pillow as a reminder to wear them.
5. He is selfless. David is always putting others before himself. Not just me, but everyone he knows. He is always thinking about others and ways that he can help them. Just by his example, he teaches me to be a better person.
4. He would do anything for me. Literally. He is not just the “I would take a bullet for you” do anything type (because we all know that situation is really likely to happen), but this man one time checked to see if I had a hemorrhoid. What can I say? I was legitimately freaking out because I had just read they are super common during pregnancy and I thought I may of had one…luckily I did not.
3. He worships me. Dave is obsessed with me. Sometimes in creepy stalker way, but it’s okay because we are married. He always wants to make sure I am happy and comfortable even if it is at the expense of himself. This man gives me a foot rub every single night! People have criticized and have said things like “just wait until you have been married a few years...” Well, you know what...all of those people are wrong! Dave has told me on several occasions that he plans on doing it forever – it is even part of his nightly routine now. And I believe him, which brings me to my next point…
2. He will be faithful to me for eternity. I trust David. Period. I know he would never lie to me, and he would never do anything to hurt me. I also know this is never going to change. His mom was joking with me the other day saying that all of the women at her work think he is soooo handsome (true), and she jokingly told them to watch out or else his wife will throw down. Which yes, I could do that (and it would be extra terrifying given the crazy person pregnancy hormones), but I would never have to. David only has eyes for me. Even when I am at my worst he always tells me how beautiful I am and how much he loves me.
1. He is the best dad in the world. Although our child, and future children, is not born yet, he is already the best dad ever! He talks to our baby girl all the time and is always thinking of her. He even has future date nights planned out for the two of them. Every time he talks to my belly, she starts moving around like crazy, which I am positive happens because she is trying to make a jail break from the womb to cuddle with him.
Now, some of you might be thinking after reading this that my husband is just whipped, but I have come to learn that there is no such thing as “whipped”. There are men who treat their wives the way they deserve to be treated, and then there are those that don’t. The ones that don’t are very easy to spot because they typically make fun of the ones that do, or they don’t treat their wives very well. It is my sincerest hope that every woman reading this right now disagrees that my husband is better than theirs (although you will never be able to convince me otherwise) because that is what you deserve! Every woman deserves to be with a man who respects her, and loves her, and treats her like the queen of the world. I am so blessed to have found the one who does that for me, and I would never trade him for anything…not even for 100 Costco sized bags of Hi-Chew!
Happy Valentine's Day David!
XOXO
Wifey and Baby Girl
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